A Wedding Like No Other
Imagine snow-covered mountains as your backdrop. Imagine rivers flowing nearby while you say “I do.” Imagine green meadows, clear skies, and peace all around. Yes, this is what a destination wedding in Kashmir can feel like — pure magic.
If you’re thinking of getting married in a place that feels straight out of a movie, Kashmir is the perfect place. In this blog, we’ll guide you through every step of how to plan your dream wedding in this beautiful valley.
Why Kashmir?
Before we get into planning, let’s see why Kashmir is perfect for your wedding:
Snow in winter, flowers in summer – beauty all year round
Stunning locations – meadows, lakes, gardens, hills
Private wedding spots – cottages, gardens, small hotels
Romantic vibe – perfect for wedding and honeymoon together
Amazing photos – every corner looks like a movie scene
Choose the Right Season
Kashmir looks different in each season. Choose the one that matches your wedding style.
Spring (March – May)
Flowers blooming, soft colours everywhere
Pleasant weather, great for outdoor weddings
Summer (June – August)
Green valleys, sunny skies, lots of light
Great for day weddings, photos in nature
Autumn (September – November)
Golden trees, crisp air, beautiful shades of red and yellow
Romantic and peaceful setting
Winter (December – February)
Snow-covered land, fairy-tale feel
Great for cosy, indoor weddings with mountain views
Pick a Beautiful Venue
In Kashmir, nature becomes your wedding stage. Here are some ideas:
Pahalgam
Calm, peaceful, and naturally beautiful
Perfect for garden weddings or riverside mandaps
Cottages by Mehtab offers a lovely private space with a scenic view
Srinagar
Famous for Dal Lake, Mughal Gardens, and traditional houseboats
Unique idea: Say your vows on a decorated Shikara boat!
Gulmarg
If you love snow or want a wedding with mountain views
Try a small luxury hotel or an outdoor ceremony in the snow
Sonamarg
Less crowd, more nature
Ideal for intimate weddings and pre-wedding photoshoots
Tip: Visit the place before booking. Take a walk. Feel the place. If your heart feels full, it’s the right one.
Plan the Ceremony Style
What kind of ceremony do you want? In Kashmir, you can create your own wedding style.
Traditional Indian wedding – mandap, rituals, music, guests
Small spiritual ceremony – close family, peaceful environment
Boho style – natural flowers, casual clothes, picnic feel
Modern couple shoot + vows – no big rituals, just love and nature
Send Special Invitations
Make your invites reflect the magic of Kashmir.
Use snowflakes, mountains, or Chinar leaves in design
Add a small map of Kashmir with your venue marked
Write something like:
“We found love in each other, now we want to say ‘I do’ in the Valley of Love – Kashmir. Join us.”
Create a Simple Itinerary
Keep things relaxed. Your guests will also be on a mini vacation. Here’s an example plan:
Day 1 – Guests arrive, welcome dinner, bonfire
Day 2 – Mehendi in a garden, music night
Day 3 – Haldi in the morning, wedding in the evening
Day 4 – Brunch, family photos, goodbyes
You can stretch it or shorten it. But keep it easy. Kashmir is about calm and connection.
Choose the Right Outfits
Here are some tips for dressing up for a wedding in Kashmir:
Use rich colours – red, gold, green, royal blue look great in natural backgrounds
Add traditional Kashmiri jewellery (like Dejhoor earrings or silver headpieces)
Use woolen shawls or jackets if it’s cold
For men – sherwanis, bandhgalas, or even a classy coat over a kurta
Bonus: Click wedding photos in local Kashmiri attire for fun and memories.
Add Local Flavours to Your Wedding
Kashmiri culture is full of beauty, colours, and warmth. Add little touches that show your love for the place:
Serve Kahwa (saffron tea) to guests on arrival
Use local flowers like marigolds and wild roses
Add soft Kashmiri music or traditional Wazwan food (if guests are okay with it)
Decorate with copper lamps, carpets, and flower hangings
Plan Couple Moments
It’s your special day. Don’t forget to plan time for just the two of you:
A short Shikara ride after the ceremony
A walk along the river in the morning
Sunset photos in the meadows
Private dinner in your cottage after the crowd goes home
These moments are small, but you’ll remember them forever.
Capture Every Emotion
Hire a photographer who understands nature and emotions. Kashmir offers stunning views, but the real magic is in:
The groom looking at the bride when she walks in
The bride laughing with her best friend
The parents wiping tears
The couple dancing under the stars
Good lighting, natural expressions, and the Kashmir backdrop = perfect wedding album.
Stay at the Right Place
Your stay must be peaceful, private, and comfortable. For a couple or small wedding groups, Cottages by Mehtab in Pahalgam is perfect:
Private cottages
Beautiful garden for small events
Near the river, surrounded by hills
Warm service, like family
Perfect for wedding + honeymoon together
Add Some Fun Activities
Let guests enjoy Kashmir too! You can plan:
Trekking or pony rides in Aru Valley
Local market visits for shawls and handicrafts
Snow fun in Gulmarg or Sonamarg
Kashmiri cooking class for fun
Photography walks or picnic mornings
These ideas make your wedding feel like a celebration, not just a formal event.
Handle the Weather
Kashmir weather is lovely, but always changing. So:
Keep indoor backup for outdoor events
Carry warm clothes, even in summer
Offer umbrellas or blankets if needed
Talk to locals or venue staff before final planning
After the Wedding – Start Your Honeymoon Right There
One of the best things about a destination wedding in Kashmir is… you don’t need to go anywhere else for your honeymoon!
Stay a few more days. Go quiet. Visit Pahalgam, Gulmarg, or Sonamarg again. Relax in a cottage. Wake up late. Go for slow walks. Take in the beauty.
This peaceful time after the wedding is like a gift to your love.
Final Words
Weddings can be grand. But a destination wedding in Kashmir is magical. It’s not just about photos and food. It’s about feelings. It’s about getting married in a place that feels alive with beauty and peace.
So, if you’re planning your wedding, think about Kashmir. Let the mountains bless your love. Let the river sing your wedding song.
Want a calm, romantic, private space for your Kashmir wedding?
Check out Cottages by Mehtab in Pahalgam – perfect for weddings, stays, and starting your forever.